Why I Have Better Sex With Married Men

The other woman in a relationship is reviled, hated, and seen as an enemy towards her fellow females. For the most part, the other woman never goes out to actively seek married men to sleep with. Most affairs happen by accident. But, there are a few women out there who seek out married men with the specific goal of homewrecking and having sex. We decided to ask them why they did it, and why they prefer it to single men. To protect the women’s identities, we’re using random photos. Here’s what they said…Do you think that the other woman should be chastised for taking part in an affair? Tell us in the comments section below. 

“Honestly? I get off on having that kind of power over men.” - Cindy, 34. Cindy admitted that she likes the idea of being able to make a man ignore the woman he married so he can be with her. She claimed that it’s “empowering” and that it makes her feel “more important than his wife.”

“They’re more willing to please.” - Linda, 26. Linda said that most married men she sleeps with seem to be more willing to go the extra mile because they’re just so thankful they have someone who’s willing to be on the side. She laughed, “I made one guy eat me out for a good hour.”

“The scandal turns me on.” - Melissa, 21. Melissa admitted that for her, it’s all about the fact that it’s “forbidden fruit.” Sleeping with married men turns her on because it makes her feel rebellious. She added, “I’m such a ‘good girl’ in all my other areas of life. Why shouldn’t I be bad here?” (Well, we can give you a few reasons, Melissa.)

“It’s a fetish.” - Ilse, 40. Ilse has been married three times, and she admitted that she realized she had a cheating fetish earlier on in her third marriage. She said that once she began to cheat on men, she couldn’t go back to being loyal. “And, if he’s married, I don’t have to worry about him trying to ruin marriage number 3,” she said.

“I feel like sex with a married man is more honest, in a way.” - Francine, 30. Francine said that she feels like sex with a single guy makes there be strings attached that she doesn’t want to have. She explained, “With single guys, there’s always that question of where you stand. With married men, it’s all fantasy - and that’s how I want it to stay.”

“The thrill of getting caught is a huge turn-on for me.” - Celeste, 29. Celeste said that it’s all about the idea that someone may be watching them, or looking at her sleeping with their husband. She said, “I wouldn’t call it a kink, but I would say that the risk of getting caught definitely gets me going.”

“For me, the entire thing makes me feel like I’m hotter than his wife.” - Charlize, 27. Charlize said that it’s part power trip, and party ego stroking. What makes her seek out married men is the idea that she could have them if she wanted to. She confessed, “I know it’s wrong, but I feel better knowing he finds me hot like that.”

“I deserved to be married, but guys kept passing me up. I might as well wreck their lives, too.” - Kate, 35. Kate is a girl who clearly feels cheated out of the life she feels she was supposed to have - and she has it out for married people in general. She explained, “Why should I respect their marriages when they never respected me? This is my way of getting reparations.” (Uh, okay Katie…)

“They really put in effort compared to single guys.” - Michelle, 32. Michelle said that what she likes about being a mistress is the way guys treat her. She explains that single guys never bothered with booking nice hotel rooms, giving her presents, and making her feel good. “I have an easier time having sex when a guy actually appreciates me sticking my neck out like that,” she said. “Single guys are just too entitled.”

“The fact that they kiss their wives after they kissed my booty makes me smile.” - Eva, 30. Eva said that it’s all about the feeling of power she gets when she sleeps with a married man. She confessed, “The idea that I’m subtly humiliating his wife and getting him to run around is super hot. Yes, I like to dominate them.”

“I have a husband-stealing fantasy.” - Ana, 27. Ana said that her biggest bedroom fantasy is taking what isn’t hers. She said there’s something sexy about being able to “steal a man” from another girl. Unlike many others in this interview, she seemed seriously remorseful. She said, “I know what I’m doing is wrong, but I just don’t know how to stop…”

“Is it weird if I say that it’s a consolation prize for me?” - Sam, 29. Sam said that she had been cheated on so many times that she no longer believed guys will ever be committed to her. She said that being the other woman somehow made her feel better, primarily because it’s her way of “getting convinced that all men cheat.” She added, “I just want so badly to believe that I’m not the reason they strayed…that it’s just in their nature.”

“The reasons are financially based.” - Kylie, 28. Kylie said that the reason she has better sex with married men is because married men pay her to do that. Smirking, she said, “Let’s just say that I can orgasm a lot better knowing that I’m paying the bills.”

“Honestly, I don’t know why I do it.” - Victoria, 36. When asked this question, Victoria said that she really doesn’t know why she does it or what makes it so attractive to her. “When I see single men, I just have no interest in them,” she said. “That wedding ring is what gets me off.”

“Because I feel like it, and I get what I want.” - Amanda, 28. Amanda had no qualms with telling us that she does it because it makes her feel like she’s in charge. She said, “It’s the fact that I can be a brat that makes me hot…and married guys respect that.”