An All-Female Sexual Play Party Changed My Sex Life For The Better, And Here’s How

Sex parties are elite, luxurious, and above all else, really, really sexy. Because of this, dozens of elite clubs all over the world charge their members an upwards of $200 or more for membership and access to some of the sexiest parties you’ll ever attend. Although most sex parties are co-ed, there’s one club in particular called Skirt Club, where only women are allowed to attend. It’s open to all women, whether they’re straight, gay, or bisexual. Here, one woman writes about her experience attending one of Skirt Club’s events.

Sex party. Nicole Yi writes via Pop Sugar about her experience going to an all-female sex party and how pleasantly surprised she was. The party was hosted by a woman named Genevieve LeJeune, who founded Skirt Club, a members-only sex club for women.

Club. LeJeune told Yi that she initially started the club after she realized that at coed sex parties, women were treated more as objects than they were as actual people. So instead, she decided to create a new club where women would be treated equally and didn’t have to feel pressured to do certain things they didn’t want to do simply because men were around.

Fluid. ”Female sexuality is fluid — society is turning a page in modern-girl thinking of what ‘sexual attraction’ can mean. Skirt Club encourages that freedom of expression,” LeJeune told Yi. LeJeune hopes that her club will allow women to explore their curiosities in a safe place that also makes them feel empowered.

Application. Yi explains that women who want to join this club have to go through an application process, but not every woman will qualify. For one, the women have to be between the ages of 21 and 49, and “career-minded.” LeJeune says that although her club is meant for women to explore their sexuality, she also wants it to be a way for women to network.

Confidence. “Skirt Club's motto is, ‘Confidence in the bedroom leads to confidence in the boardroom,’ after all. Though membership is completely free, admission to its parties (about four to five a year in each city) are a hefty price of $150-plus, which covers the cost of renting out the venue (usually a luxe penthouse or loft), unlimited drinks, and other fees,” writes Yi, via PopSugar.

Party. Yi was invited to attend a launch party in San Francisco, which was actually called a “Mini Skirt” party due to the fact that this event was only a teaser of what was to come in the future. But if this party is any indication of how their future events would be, it’s safe to say they’ll be a huge success.

Members. “As more beautiful women filled out the space, my editor and I mingled with some other members. The one thing we noticed instantly was the diverse range of attendees. It was by far the hottest melting pot I had ever been a part of. There was absolutely no cattiness, and each person would return your smile. Everyone looked so at ease, speaking as though they had already known each other, even though it was the inaugural party in our city,” writes Yi.

Guests. Yi explains that she felt so comfortable at the party, she wasn’t afraid to leave her drink unattended. Had this been at a coed party or a regular bar, who knows what her drink could have been spiked with. As Yi mingled and talked to some of the guests, she met one woman who attended these parties frequently and gave her some tips.

Rules. ”She recommended that we sit across from, instead of next to, our crushes for a better chance of landing on them in spin the bottle, which we later played. And she warned us that if we took a tequila body shot, the rule is that you have to get up on the bar next. Good to know,” writes Yi.

Entertainment. Yi continued watching the women who were in attendance and was impressed when a burlesque dancer came out to entertain the guests. After the performance, another speaker hopped on the stage and gave some tips and rules for “playing.” Afterwards, the women were all given some cards that were meant to get things started.

Intimacy. “Mine instructed me to brush the thigh of the girl next to me. And then we went back to our middle school roots for an innocent game of spin the bottle, where things really started taking off. Each of the three sections of the lounge were occupied by circles of now-well-acquainted friends. As the evening progressed, so did the intimacy,” writes Yi.

Pairing off. The women began to find partners and before you knew it, they had paired off. Because this wasn’t a full on sex party, there was no actual sex allowed, but Yi says she witnessed women kissing on the dance floor while simultaneously exchanging career advice.

Support. “The premise of community and support in your journey of exploration is not at all a facade. The women were playful but respectful. Encouraging but never pressuring,” writes Yi, via Pop Sugar.

Healing. Before leaving, LeJeune told Yi a particularly touching story about an event that took place where a woman was hesitant to take off her top in a swimming pool because she’d gotten a double mastectomy. But instead of shunning her, the other women at the party convinced her to take it off and all took turns kissing her breasts. LeJeune described it as a “healing ritual.”

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