Here’s What It’s Like To Practice Sex Magic

Sex magic has a lot of myths behind it. The very name suggests strange cult-like practices, weird orgies, and other tawdry stuff straight out of an X-rated literary novel. The actual practice of using sex in a magic spell is not half as interesting as the name would suggest, but it does have its perks in bed.Have you ever wondered what being a sex magic practitioner is like? Well, one sex magic user has decided to talk about their experiences. Here’s what they said about how they make things happen.

The first thing that you’ll learn is that it’s not anything like the way that Hollywood portrays it. There’s no weird pentagram with candles on the floor. There’s no weird chanting. There’s usually not even more than one person involved. Most of the time, sex magic is a solo, intimate act that involves masturbation while concentrating on an outcome you want to have.

Okay, well, sometimes there are candles. Most of the time, the candle colors will related to something that the spell caster will want to have achieved. “I use green candles for money spells, for example,” they said. “Meanwhile, black candles are used for getting rid of bad vibes.” They don’t perform love spells using sex magic, though, because of the implications it would have on free will.

When you’re working a sex magic spell, you can’t orgasm until you’re done thinking. This can mean that you’re literally fantasizing and masturbating for quite a long time. Generally, the intensity of your thoughts and the length of time you use will determine how effective a spell will be. Strong thoughts for a long time will influence things way better than a passing glance.

And, you have to focus on what you want during the masturbation session. The best way to do this, according to the user, is to just focus on the vibes you want to manifest. So, if you want to get money, think of abundance - and then try to get aroused. If you want something to be revealed, you might try to do something closer to the line of thinking about something with a “caught in the act” fantasy while you do your thing.

“Like pulling a trigger.” The user said that once you orgasm, it’s basically like sending your thoughts out into the universe to let them manifest. If spells were guns, having an orgasm during a sex spell would be pulling a trigger.

If you do sex magic with a partner, they have to be into it - and you have to be into them, too. Otherwise, you’ll end up pulling the trigger early. Or, you’ll end up having sex with a creep who you really aren’t into for the excuse of magic. It sucks either way, and it’s shocking how many guys will use “sex magic” as a reason to get into a girl’s pants.

If you do sex magic, you have to keep your mouth shut about it. Though it’s really powerful magic, it’s not exactly something you want to talk about. A lot of people will give unwanted advances to you if you talk about it, and others will just think you’re weird, gross, or creepy. So, it’s a quiet thing - even among other pagans.

In many other ways, it’s not unlike other kinds of magic use. There are rituals, there are supplies, and there are rules that you need to follow. Not following the rules can really mess up how your life will go, and in certain cases, can end up making things way worse for you and everyone around you.

After a sex magic session, several things can happen. Once you’ve “pulled the trigger,” you can do a multitude of things. You can clean up and keep going about your daily life, citing the spell as over. You can cast another spell on top of the sex spell just to solidify intentions. Or, you could just roll over and fall asleep because you just had a major O.

Some people like to do sacred bathing before a sex magic session, too. “One of my friends also does sex magic,” they said. They then explained that their friend does something called sacred bathing before they get into the act. This involves bathing with special herbs and salts to purify themselves of bad vibes and relax.

Sex magic has apparently made the magic user notice certain things in bed. The first thing they noticed is that they tend to feel better about their body. They explained, “I never really felt good about my body, and sex magic is slowly making that change a bit. I like seeing my body as a tool, if that makes sense.”

They also noticed that their attitude on sex changed. “Sex isn’t as sleazy as it once was for me,” they said. They then went on to say that it became a much less “dirty” act, and became more cerebral in nature.

Their muscles also began to get better. All the masturbation had ended up having a great effect on their tone down south. They noticed they can prolong their orgasms, flex their muscles with ease, and also last longer in bed without tiring out. If you think about it, it makes sense. You are exercising those muscles when you do sex magic.

Lastly, they noticed that they’ve gotten some effects from the magic that they performed. “Sex magic is really powerful compared to other forms of spell casting and witchcraft,” they said. Because of the passionate nature of sex, the spells tend to work faster and more intensely than others. Or at least, that’s what they noticed.

They also said that the longer you practice it, the more intense your orgasms become. And, they made sure to add, “That’s both during spell casting and during the act with a lover.” It seems like sex magic is really enjoyable and could lead to awesome things happening in life. Would you do it? Tell us in the comments below!