The dating life. The dating life is difficult enough on its own without having to worry about the other person’s personality. There’s enough anxiety and insecurity that you’re feeling, that it’d be great if your partner was easier to handle than some guys tend to be. That’s not to say that straight guys are horrible — they can just be… difficult.
The bisexual man. This is why dating a bisexual man is so much more satisfying than dating a heterosexual man. They have these special perks that are solely unique to being bisexual, and it’s time they get their deserved credit. Some people have this negative outlook on bisexual men, so this is going to help clear the air.
The hetero hold-back. With heterosexual guys, it’s sometimes difficult getting them to explore their sexuality. They tend to be so set in their ways that they refuse to step outside their comfort zone, often because they’re afraid of how doing so might affect someone’s perception of them.
The comforting lack of repression. This is where bisexual men have the perks. They tend to come off as less repressed, which makes sex seem more adventurous, giving it more potential. They’ve “been there and done that,” so they’re usually not afraid of how you might judge them (or how they think you might judge them.
Added benefits. When you’re dating a bisexual man, it’s not the same as fooling around with a gay men. Because he’s not a gay man. He’s a bisexual man. There’s a difference. So, when you’re watching adult films together and he’s also into the guys just as much as the women, this is unique kind of connectedness that you can’t get with anyone else.
The party. “We threw together this little party at our apartment, and it was a sex party. But a casual one. Still, I can’t even tell you how sexy it was watching my man with another man, knowing he was enjoying it, but also knowing he was doing it to turn me on. I’ve never gotten that with straight guys.” —Allyson, 30
The benefits with judgments. With bisexual men, you’re dealing with someone who is far less restricted in their own heads. Because of this, their lack of over-judgment makes them more emotionally aware, which typically saves relationships from crashing and burning. Their emotions aren’t pointlessly f*cking things up for them.
Confidence. “Bisexual men are the most confident men you’ll ever meet. It’s seriously like they don’t give a f*ck, and it’s so refreshing, I can’t even tell you. They just own themselves and they’re not awkward or insecure about who they are. It’s such a satisfying experience.” —Becca, 25
Sex and sensitivity. It’s not fair to box straight guys up into one single personality, but it just so happens that they tend to be a bit repressed when it comes to showing off their sensitive side. They tend to believe that they need to “act the part” when it comes to being masculine, even though this is such a dated approach.
Mr. Sensitive. “I’ve dated straight guys mostly, and I’ve always had negative experiences. It just gets to a point in the relationship where you realize they’re not willing to grow or go anywhere exciting because they’re so f*cking tied down to this idea of being manly and it feels suffocating sometimes.” —Gina, 26
Two sides of the story. With bisexual men, this tends to really be the case. Bisexual men tend to be more sensitive when it comes to sex, because they’ve experienced both sides. Their experiences have opened them up to a unique way of looking at not just sex, but the people they’re having sex with.
Fairness. Honestly, bisexual men don’t have it easy. In fact, bisexual people in general don’t have it easy. People assume that they just “haven’t chosen a side yet,” and it can be deeply frustrating. So, really, before you make any assumptions, it wouldn’t hurt giving a bisexual guy a shot if the opportunity comes your way.
Making assumptions. “I literally used to always think that bi guys were kind of weird? That sounds sh*tty, but I mean it in like, I didn’t understand how they settled into relationships. When I finally tried it out, I realized that there was no better kind of person to date. You can’t compare it.” —Melissa, 29
Giving it a shot. Now, keep in mind that there is a difference between dating a bisexual guy and a straight guy who’s experienced before. There are certainly plenty of similarities, but for the most part, it’s not the same thing. The experimental heterosexual man may share similar emotional qualities, but they’re walking very different paths.
F*ck the assumptions. There is a belief among many that bisexual men are harder to trust in a relationship because they’re more likely to jump ship when they’re attracted to someone else, be it a man or a woman. However, this is some bullsh*t, seeing as being bisexual doesn’t mean you can’t control your sexual urges.
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