Best Positions For Oral Lovin’

Everyone loves a little oral. Actually, a lot of oral. So why not change the way you do it a bit? Take a look at the best positions for oral lovin!

Lay on your sides facing each other, then slide down until his member is in your face. Perfect for lazy girls!

While you’re on your sides, try the lazy 69!

Have your man lie upside down on the couch, with his back on the seat and his legs over the back. Kneel over his face, bend over, and enjoy the relaxing 69!

Sit on your male partner’s face. This gives you control over everything!

Men can also try sitting on their partner’s face for oral pleasure, but it’s important to make sure it’s something they’re comfortable with.

Doggy style! Get on your knees and let your man stimulate you.

In the doggy style position, the man can pleasure you from behind or underneath you!

Try oral standing up.

Oral while standing opens up more pleasure benefits, and allows the giver to use their hands more freely.

Hang your head off the bed and bend it backwards, and take your man in your mouth.

Want maximum pleasure when he goes down on you? Lay on the bed, and scoot toward the end. Have your partner hold your legs up as they go down on you.

This position opens you up so they won’t miss a thing. But you’ll certainly miss it when it’s over!

Use your surroundings! Go to a knew room in the house or just somewhere new to give/ get your oral pleasure.

Try laying on the kitchen counter or table. Pleasuring each other orally outside of the bedroom will make it so much more exciting.

Try it fully clothed! Just lift up the skirt or pull down the pants. The immediacy is thrilling!

Oral 2.0

Have you already mastered the beginner's guide to giving amazing oral? Well then, you're ready for the advanced class. Here we outlined a few tips on how to touch, rub, and suck down there to make sure both of you have a mind blowing finish.

First step to surpassing your old self is to stop thinking of it as a job.

Done correctly, it can be satisfying for both of you.

Take control.

It can be one of the most empowering things to do because you are taking control of his pleasure.

It shouldn't be a rushed job.

He wants so savor it.

The deeper the better may be the case in porn,

But not always in real life. Have some fun with him.

Gagging takes both of you out of the moment.

Licking will help him get into a groove.

Oral Sex Is a Dealbreaker When It Comes to Having an Affair, According to Survey

A new study has found that when it comes to having an affair, many people place a high value on oral sex.According to the pro-cheating website, VictoriaMilan, as many as 65% of women and 68% of men say that if someone they are sleeping with isn’t down for oral sex, it would be a deal breaker.

The website surveyed more than 9000 of its members, many of whom said that not only would the lack of oral sex be the end of an affair, it could be the reason they considered having an affair in the first place!

Oral sex is a deal breaker. According to the findings of a recent survey, many people place a high value on oral sex when they are having an affair. In fact, says the pro-cheating website VictoriaMilan, a large percentage of their more than 9000 members that they surveyed said that a sexual partner not being down for oral sex would be a deal breaker that not only ends an affair but is the catalyst for seeking out one in the first place.

Oral sex matters in a sexual relationship. 65% of the women and 68% of the men surveyed by the site said that oral sex would make or break an affair for them. Even more of them admitted, however, that it matters in every relationship.

The frequency of oral sex should be consistent. 72% of the women surveyed and 85% of the men said they needed to have oral sex in all their relationships. They also reported that they would be uncomfortable if the frequency of cunnilingus or fellatio was to drop.

Many people like to give oral sex. The VictoriaMilan researchers made some other surprising discoveries too. They found that the vast majority of their members not only liked receiving oral but also giving.

No surprises that 94% of men enjoy receiving a “blow job.” 77% of the women surveyed, say the researchers, and 72% of the men reported deriving enjoyment from performing oral sex on a partner. Unsurprisingly, though, 94% of the men said they also enjoy receiving compared to 89% of women.

Few women don’t enjoy it but more men don’t like to give it. Only 11% of the women surveyed said that they do not enjoy receiving oral from a partner while 28% of men don’t like to give it!

Heterosexual women may get the least oral sex. According to the researchers, heterosexual women still appear to get the least oral sex. They chalk it up to a combination of many women continuing to feel insecure about the appearance, smell and taste of their vaginas, as well as some men’s “unwillingness to go down” on women.

“The oral sex gender gap” is real. Writer Ellen Scott, writing for the Metro UK, backed up these findings in a recent article on what she called “the oral sex gender gap.” According to Scott, it’s a real thing and she has been affected by it.

Writer can count the number of times she has received oral sex in the last 6 years. Scott says that while she has been sexually active for 6 years, she can still count the number of times on both hands that she has had the pleasure of the stroke of someone’s tongue on her genitals. She has lost count, she says, of the number of blow jobs she has given.

Men consider “blow jobs” to be a given. Scott says that she is tired of “blow jobs being a given,” while oral sex for women is considered “something special.” She recognizes that the issue may not compare with the “gender pay gap, or rape culture, or honor killings,” but believe that it is still worthy of a conversation.

Lesbians have lots of oral sex. Scott cites a recent survey of 899 Canadian college students that found that while lesbians were having “wonderful oral sex all around,” only 44% of heterosexual women compared to 63% of men could say that they had received oral sex during a recent hookup. Scott also informally interviewed her own friends and found that the same appeared to be true - that in heterosexual relationships, boyfriends receive more oral sex than their girlfriends!

Men have a number of excuses. Among the many excuses given for why this is the case, men complained that their neck hurts during the activity or that a woman takes too long. Some even claim that they don’t know how.

Women Spill The Details On Everything They Love About Giving Oral Sex

While sex can be fun, a lot of people forget that foreplay can be just as exciting. While some couples like to skip it and go straight to the main course, other people like to take their time pleasing their partners. Oral sex is a huge favorite for both men and women. The problem is, not everyone likes to give it. But here, 15 women who love to give oral sex opened up about why they love it so much.

In control. "I love to give them, and I know one of my friends does too. One of the things I enjoy from blowjobs is knowing that I am in control and just seeing the pleasure that my so is getting from it,” says Reddit user Katg249.

Feeling. "I absolutely love it. It's one of my favorite things. It tastes good, feels good, is so much fun. I love feeling him in my throat. I love swallowing. I love the feeling a penis in my mouth. When I undo my boyfriend's pants, I need his penis in my mouth. I've stopped him from starting foreplay on me so I could continue to keep sucking,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Accomplishment. "I love them. It makes me feel so good about myself when I can make him finish from just a blowjob, because it's all me; he didn't have to do an ounce of work. I've said this before, but I would guess that the feeling of accomplishment I get is akin to that a man feels when he can make a woman climax purely through oral. And aside from that sense of 'Yay! I'm good at this!', it turns me on to know that I can control him, in the most basic nervous-system reactions sense, so easily. Penises are like toys. Sex is playtime, and blowjobs are playtime where I control absolutely everything he feels,” says Reddit user thesnarkisaboojum.

Butter. ”I'm another head-lover. I think that for as many girls who don't enjoy it there are plenty who do for a multitude of reasons. My reasons used to be (used to bc we broke up) the fact that I was giving him great pleasure with something I was doing and I got off on knowing that. I also loved the way it felt in my mouth..like a stick of butter if that makes any sense,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Enthusiasm. "I love giving my SO head. Not all the time, mind you- sometimes I'm just not in the mood. But when I am, I really am into it and try to show how enthusiastic I am about it. In particular, I really enjoy going down on him after he has been inside of me and has both of our smells/tastes on his penis, or when we're snuggling and being casually sexually flirtatious in bed he nudges me down and pulls the blanket off his hips,” says Reddit user dewprisms.

Sexy. "I completely love giving blowjobs. The best it ever was for me was the last guy I was with (probably also because he's an amazing person) but I loved to feel every inch, every twitch...and when he was about to come he kinda shivered in this amazingly sexy way...followed by that pulse and the warm on my tongue.,.I loved being able to make him shiver, and getting him so hard and so breathless...giving head is amazing. I honestly get all hot and bothered thinking about it,” says Reddit user vraim3nt.

Turn on. "I love giving my SO hand jobs and blow jobs and am usually eager to do them whenever. It's a huge turn on to me as I'm highly into pleasing my man and feeling his muscles tensing, his heavy breathing, and just... pretty much everything. It's fun and sexy,” says Reddit user jadedpotatoes.

Less painful. "Love giving head. I have chronic pain issues, and it's a way to have sex that doesn't wind up with me popping painkillers, or having to change positions four times because my hip/knee/whatever starts giving out. I like knowing I'm in complete control of his pleasure, too,” says Reddit user beadivina.

Focus. "Love it. I love getting to focus on him. I love knowing I'm making him feel that way. And I love tasting cum, so that's part of it,” says Reddit user notdeadanymore.

Craving. ”I do crave it, when i get horny my mouth goes tingly and when i'm having sex i think about having a penis in my mouth too. I really enjoy it as i love making people happy, i like the control, things like that. Everyone is different though,” says Reddit user chrialzelle.

Awkward. "I like the idea of them, in theory it all sounds great. I like the control and such, but actually performing oral sex is a lot more awkward, spit-sloppy, and gaggy than that fantasy in my head,” says Reddit user TIGit.

Different positions. ”I love it to. I love giving head, but less about the in control aspect and more I love the experience of his penis -taste, feel, smell, sensation. And in that sense I'm a kind of selfish head giver - less about treating him and more getting him to lie back and enjoy me enjoying his penis until we f***. Or to 69 or manually stimulate me to orgasm with my mouth wrapped around his penis till we f***. Or interrupting our piv sex to feel his penis in my mouth till we switch positions,” says Reddit user metathinking.

Fun. "I love giving head. I am in total control of what pleasure he has and when he has it. It's so much fun for both of us. when he finishes i feel like i'm the most amazing thing around. I feel extremely sexy and talented,” says Reddit user vivaenmiriana.

Twitches. "It's so much fun! I love making my guy whimper. I am constantly thinking of new ways to pleasure him. I also just love the way it feels having him my mouth, and how it twitches, and how it smells, and how it tastes.. damn now I wanna blow him,” says Reddit user shynugget.

Competition. "I try to see how good I am at it. Like its my own competition. I've got to the point where I can make him moan from it,” says an anonymous Reddit user.