Women Spill The Details On Everything They Love About Giving Oral Sex

While sex can be fun, a lot of people forget that foreplay can be just as exciting. While some couples like to skip it and go straight to the main course, other people like to take their time pleasing their partners. Oral sex is a huge favorite for both men and women. The problem is, not everyone likes to give it. But here, 15 women who love to give oral sex opened up about why they love it so much.

In control. "I love to give them, and I know one of my friends does too. One of the things I enjoy from blowjobs is knowing that I am in control and just seeing the pleasure that my so is getting from it,” says Reddit user Katg249.

Feeling. "I absolutely love it. It's one of my favorite things. It tastes good, feels good, is so much fun. I love feeling him in my throat. I love swallowing. I love the feeling a penis in my mouth. When I undo my boyfriend's pants, I need his penis in my mouth. I've stopped him from starting foreplay on me so I could continue to keep sucking,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Accomplishment. "I love them. It makes me feel so good about myself when I can make him finish from just a blowjob, because it's all me; he didn't have to do an ounce of work. I've said this before, but I would guess that the feeling of accomplishment I get is akin to that a man feels when he can make a woman climax purely through oral. And aside from that sense of 'Yay! I'm good at this!', it turns me on to know that I can control him, in the most basic nervous-system reactions sense, so easily. Penises are like toys. Sex is playtime, and blowjobs are playtime where I control absolutely everything he feels,” says Reddit user thesnarkisaboojum.

Butter. ”I'm another head-lover. I think that for as many girls who don't enjoy it there are plenty who do for a multitude of reasons. My reasons used to be (used to bc we broke up) the fact that I was giving him great pleasure with something I was doing and I got off on knowing that. I also loved the way it felt in my mouth..like a stick of butter if that makes any sense,” says an anonymous Reddit user.

Enthusiasm. "I love giving my SO head. Not all the time, mind you- sometimes I'm just not in the mood. But when I am, I really am into it and try to show how enthusiastic I am about it. In particular, I really enjoy going down on him after he has been inside of me and has both of our smells/tastes on his penis, or when we're snuggling and being casually sexually flirtatious in bed he nudges me down and pulls the blanket off his hips,” says Reddit user dewprisms.

Sexy. "I completely love giving blowjobs. The best it ever was for me was the last guy I was with (probably also because he's an amazing person) but I loved to feel every inch, every twitch...and when he was about to come he kinda shivered in this amazingly sexy way...followed by that pulse and the warm on my tongue.,.I loved being able to make him shiver, and getting him so hard and so breathless...giving head is amazing. I honestly get all hot and bothered thinking about it,” says Reddit user vraim3nt.

Turn on. "I love giving my SO hand jobs and blow jobs and am usually eager to do them whenever. It's a huge turn on to me as I'm highly into pleasing my man and feeling his muscles tensing, his heavy breathing, and just... pretty much everything. It's fun and sexy,” says Reddit user jadedpotatoes.

Less painful. "Love giving head. I have chronic pain issues, and it's a way to have sex that doesn't wind up with me popping painkillers, or having to change positions four times because my hip/knee/whatever starts giving out. I like knowing I'm in complete control of his pleasure, too,” says Reddit user beadivina.

Focus. "Love it. I love getting to focus on him. I love knowing I'm making him feel that way. And I love tasting cum, so that's part of it,” says Reddit user notdeadanymore.

Craving. ”I do crave it, when i get horny my mouth goes tingly and when i'm having sex i think about having a penis in my mouth too. I really enjoy it as i love making people happy, i like the control, things like that. Everyone is different though,” says Reddit user chrialzelle.

Awkward. "I like the idea of them, in theory it all sounds great. I like the control and such, but actually performing oral sex is a lot more awkward, spit-sloppy, and gaggy than that fantasy in my head,” says Reddit user TIGit.

Different positions. ”I love it to. I love giving head, but less about the in control aspect and more I love the experience of his penis -taste, feel, smell, sensation. And in that sense I'm a kind of selfish head giver - less about treating him and more getting him to lie back and enjoy me enjoying his penis until we f***. Or to 69 or manually stimulate me to orgasm with my mouth wrapped around his penis till we f***. Or interrupting our piv sex to feel his penis in my mouth till we switch positions,” says Reddit user metathinking.

Fun. "I love giving head. I am in total control of what pleasure he has and when he has it. It's so much fun for both of us. when he finishes i feel like i'm the most amazing thing around. I feel extremely sexy and talented,” says Reddit user vivaenmiriana.

Twitches. "It's so much fun! I love making my guy whimper. I am constantly thinking of new ways to pleasure him. I also just love the way it feels having him my mouth, and how it twitches, and how it smells, and how it tastes.. damn now I wanna blow him,” says Reddit user shynugget.

Competition. "I try to see how good I am at it. Like its my own competition. I've got to the point where I can make him moan from it,” says an anonymous Reddit user.